As we move through life, most of us find that we need to reinvent ourselves multiple times. These “changes” can be a result of starting or changing schools, going to college, getting our first job, getting our first home away from our parents (or guardians), changing career, becoming a parent, losing a parent, losing your children, losing a job. All of these things represent huge change in our lives which has many and varied impacts As humans, we each adapt to things in different ways. Some things are chronically devastating (I use the medical understanding of “Chronic” here to mean long-lasting) and impossible to recover from without considerable outside help,…